🎙️ Created, written and performed by: Ellen J. Wanjiru | 🎥 Produced by: Ellen Tha Great Productions, LLC
In this special post-Valentine’s Day edition of My Imaginary Therapist, I sit down with Dr. Joy for a refreshingly raw Q&A on love, heartbreak, situationships, limerence, letting go, and self-love — you know, just the usual emotional buffet.
Armed with candor and comedy, we tackle the tough questions:
💔 Is your love genuine — or just a fear of being alone?
🔄 Can limerence turn into real love?
🤔 Are situationships just heartbreak in disguise?
🚪 How do you really let go of someone who’s no longer for you?
💡 And is self-preservation the same as emotional shutdown?
🧠 In this episode:
How to spot the difference between love and fear-based attachment
Real talk about letting go of old relationships (and what you gain)
The balancing act between vulnerability and self-protection
Why breakups aren’t failures — they’re foundations for growth
How self-love sets the tone for all your relationships
If you've ever spiraled in a situationship, mistook limerence for love, or held on longer than you should’ve… this one’s for you.
Which question hit home the most? Drop your thoughts below.