My Imaginary Therapist S2 E7: Mirror Talk: Why We Attract Who We Are (Even the Unavailable Ones)

🎙️ Created, written & performed by: Ellen J. Wanjiru | 🎥 Produced by: Ellen Tha Great Productions, LLC

"Why do I keep attracting the same kind of people?”

That question sent me into a spiritual wormhole that ended with a humbling truth: we attract who we are.

In this week’s session of My Imaginary Therapist, I reflect on how the people in my life — from those with radiant energy to the emotionally unavailable (ouch) — might just be mirrors, reflecting back the best and not-so-best parts of me.

With Dr. Joy’s guidance, I explore:

  • Why we’re drawn to both positive and triggering traits in others

  • How relationships mirror our own inner world

  • The deeper truth behind attraction, patterns, and self-awareness

  • Why mirror work goes beyond affirmations into radical self-honesty

✨ If you’ve ever wondered why you keep attracting the same people, this one’s for you.

What have the people in your life been reflecting back to you?

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