My Imaginary Therapist S2 E7: Mirror Talk: Why We Attract Who We Are (Even the Unavailable Ones)

🎙️ Created, written & performed by: Ellen J. Wanjiru | 🎥 Produced by: Ellen Tha Great Productions, LLC

In this week’s introspective session, I share how a spiritual wormhole led me to a humbling truth: we attract who we are. From admiring people with radiant energy to being drawn to emotionally unavailable men (ouch), I started realizing that everyone in my life might just be holding up a mirror — reflecting back the best and not-so-best parts of myself.

With Dr. Joy’s help, I explore how recognizing both positive and triggering traits in others can uncover deeper truths about our own inner world. Turns out, mirror work isn’t just about affirmations — it’s about radical self-awareness.

🪞 In this episode:

  • The spiritual law of “like attracts like” explained through real-life connections

  • How the people who inspire and irritate us reflect our inner self

  • Why emotional unavailability might be something we’re also projecting

  • How to use these reflections to grow, heal, and cultivate emotional balance

  • Practicing presence, empathy, and intentional self-awareness in relationships

If you’ve ever asked, “Why do I keep attracting the same kinds of people?” — this one’s your mirror moment.

What have the people in your life been reflecting back to you?

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